You should be single. The internet is filled with dating bloggers, most of whom are single, Writing down their experiences on different platforms, and being set up on bad blind dates. Your local bookstore has its own little section filled with red, pink, and white covers giving you advice on how to make a relationship work. Shit, all your friends are either talking to someone, dating someone seriously, engaged, or already married with their 2.5 kids. It’s almost like everyone is pushing this idea that you have to be in a relationship. As if every date, social interaction should lead to a full blown serious relationship. And, while I’m not here to argue for or against relationships, I will say there are times we have no business being in one. If any of these signs ring a bell, you should be single
The thought of being single is scary (for some). And quite a few ladies unconsciously engage in the activities that portray them as the ones who desire to be single for life. Below, ii have briefly researched and brought them for your perusal. Take some time to read and reminisce about the list of behaviors/traits
1. YOU REFUSE TO GIVE NEW PEOPLE A CHANCE.
It’s like it’s just not in your nature to accept anyone into your life. You’ve gotten to the point where when someone smiles at you, your immediate reaction is to scowl and runaway.
Yeah, we get it: You’re not going to settle. But telling everyone over and over again isn’t going to convince you or anyone else that that’s why you’re single. Get over yourself. YOU’RE CONSTANTLY SPOUTING OFF ABOUT HOW YOU WON’T SETTLE.
It’s really important to have standards and also important to have expectations of people, but when you get to a point that no one, not even Superman, can meet those expectations, you’re just dooming yourself and your future. YOU HAVE INSANELY UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.
This one is mostly among the women. Appearing too eager especially when we meet someone new. The moment you start spewing out your whole history almost immediately isn’t very attractive. Besides, what if the guy just wants to be friends? how will that make you look?
5. People Pleasing Character
This category of women do not have a mind of their own. They do not want to have other people’s opinion on their own lives and relationship. And you just may miss the right guy because your friends or families (who haven’t had the chance to properly meet the guy ) do not approve. Who that one now epp?
6. Hard to get
This is honestly over rated. Simply because you play the hard to get for a guy and he chills till you make up your mind, doesn’t mean he is the best choice for you. Every guy has their patience level o.
7. Do not be a Confirmed Loner
When you get to the stage where your friends or family don’t think of you when they have parties or outings that require a plus one, or when they even want to setting up blind dates; Honey, You’re a Confirmed Loner! Don’t do that to yourself.